Speaker:- Mary Panko
Worship Leader:- Barbara Thomborson
Mary Panko, immediate past president of New Zealand’s End-of-Life Choice Society, is guest speaker on the End-of-Life Choice Act and its upcoming Parliamentary review.
Barbara Thomborson, service leader, will share Unitarian Universalist background on this controversial topic. This service is a call to action.
Follow this link to download information on how to make a submission to the End-of-Life Choice Act review, closing date 26 September 2024.
Mary’s slides to accompany this talk.
From Barbara Thomborson:-
On July 1, 1988, at the Unitarian Universalist Assn’s annual general meeting, they adopted the following resolution:-
How farsighted were those UUs to make this resolution 36 years ago!
Never mind that New Zealand is 33 years behind the UUA Resolution. in 2021, our End-of-Life Choice Act came into effect and is up for review at the end of this year. Mary gave you details about the Act. Now let’s consider the Unitarian values behind supporting the choice for medically assisted death. They’re in our first four principles:
The word dignity in our first Principle relates to one term for self-euthanasia – death with dignity. My previous neighbour has been in the dementia ward at a retirement village for almost 3 years. After about 6 months of being there, he told his wife that he wanted to die then. He knew what was coming and dreaded it. Currently, because his brain can no longer send messages to his muscles, he cannot sit up, so is strapped up in a chair for most of the day. His flaccid muscles make it impossible for someone to carry him, so he’s taken to the shower by a machine like a small crane – it’s quite a production. He has worn a catheter for over two years and because of it, has had multiple urinary tract infections. He can open his mouth for someone to feed him and for drinking from a straw. He drools, and his nose runs most of the day. Where is the dignity in such an existence?
Principles 3 and 4 relate to spiritual and meaningful aspects in contemplating death, especially one’s own death. Principle 3 asks us to encourage spiritual growth in our congregation. I’ve read stories describing the thoughts and events of some who chose when and how to end their life. It was a spiritual experience in understanding their spiritual relationship to life through contemplating their suffering and death. Principle 4 has a related philosophical dimension. The experience of searching for the truth and meaning in contemplating their death brought them to seeing a broader truth to “death in life” and a new understanding of life’s meaning.
Our Principle 2 has the word ‘compassion’, which I think is the most relevant reason for expanding our End-of-Life Choice Act. 10 years ago, I knew a man who threw himself off a six-storey building because of suffering for many years from unbearable back pain. Elderly in failing health and abilities sometimes resort to voluntary stopping eating and drinking (VSED). I live in a retirement village and have met people, all in their late 80’s or 90’s, who wish their lives were over, yesterday. Some had tears just speaking about their agony; their anguish was palpable. One spoke of her despair at waking every morning and ruing that she was still alive.
If your pet had dementia or an extremely low quality of life, would you prolong their suffering by refusing euthanasia? At least that is legal for other animals who can’t tell us when they want it. As Unitarians, we have the chance to act on our principle of compassion in human relations by asking our government to expand the criteria for choosing medically assisted death. Information on making a submission is on the paper on your seat. Please act with your heart and make a submission on the review of the End-of-Life Choice Act. You never know from those you know who might benefit and thank you for your compassion.
Meditation / Conversation starter
- Has today’s service changed your view on end-of-life choice? What is it now?
- Will you make a submission to the Ministry of Health on End-of-Life Choice Act review? What would you put in it?