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Pomp and circumstance:
a valedictory

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Pomp And Circumstance: A Valedictory
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Clay Nelson © 17 September 2023

Here is a factoid about your minister I hope to have kept from you for nine years. In secondary school, I was a band nerd. I wasn’t the cool one playing the sexy alto sax like I wanted. Instead, I was consigned over my objections to playing the tuba. It was even more humiliating as I was one of the smallest in the band.

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a valedictory

Nah/Yeah

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Nah/Yeah
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Clay Nelson © 13 August 2023

As has been mentioned once or twice recently, and to my great sadness, I am retiring at the end of the month. Because I have loved all forty-one years of my ordained ministry in two denominations and my nine years with you, I want to scream, “Nah, this isn’t how I planned it.” But, ”Yeah, it is the reality I must come to accept…kind of.”

The expectation of ministers, when they retire, is to absent themselves for at least a year from the congregation they served to make room for the new minister. As trained UU ministers don’t grow on trees here or in Australia, and it will be a while before we can hire my replacement, I’ve been asked to help fill the vacuum on a voluntary basis while you figure out where you want to go.

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Organic Generosity

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Organic Generosity
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Clay Nelson © 30 July 2023

My father loved words. The Oxford English Dictionary and books on etymology, the study of the origin of words and how their meanings have changed throughout history, were never far from his fingertips. If he couldn’t find just the right word for the book he was writing, he had no reluctance in just creating a word that captured his intent. He passed on his love of words to me. That was to my benefit in seminary, where I was required to take two semesters of word study. It was essential to preparing sermons. Our task was to fully understand biblical words in all their meanings, translations and uses in biblical times so they could be applied relevantly in our modern and cultural context. I know it sounds boring and tedious, but thanks to Dad, I loved it.

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Whiteness:
the gift that keeps on giving

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Whiteness, the gift that keeps on giving
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Clay Nelson © 23 July 2023

You might remember me telling you the story of the 1969 UUA General Assembly in Boston. It was at the height of the Black empowerment movement in America. For that reason, many Black UUs attended instead of the token few who usually came. White UUs were shocked and wondered where they all came from. They had always been there since the 18th century but had been generally ignored or discounted. We were more diverse than we had been aware of or at least acknowledged. But in 1969, systemic racism reared its ugly head, undermining that diversity and many Black UUs walked out the door, never to return. Much has happened within Unitarian Universalism since then. So, it was highly newsworthy when Sofia Betancourt, a woman, a person of colour and openly queer, was overwhelmingly elected as president of the UUA.

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the gift that keeps on giving

Are you living the life you chose, or are you living the life that chose you?

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Are you living the life you chose, or are you living the life that chose you?
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Clay Nelson © 25 June 2023

No. 6 in the ‘A Living Tradition‘ series:- 1234, 5.

Over a long life, I often think about the choices I’ve made or were made for me. How have they determined who I am now? How have they pointed me in a positive direction or made my life a personal hell? They have surely done both. Has my life followed a script with little input from me, or has it been totally of my own making? These are the musings I’d like to explore this morning.

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A minister’s work is never done, and neither is yours

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A minister’s work is never done, and neither is yours
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Clay Nelson © 11 June 2023

I keep getting enquiries about and objections to replacing principles with values (Here are links to the earlier talks on this topic:- 1, 2, 3 & 4). I thought I’d dealt with this issue but, apparently, not satisfactorily for some. So, let me try again.

These changes did not come out of the blue. There are a couple of stories behind them. They tell stories about UU principles and values.

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New Member Sunday

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Worship Leader:- Rev. Clay Nelson

No recordings this week.

Following our ritual for welcoming new members into the congregation, Clay gave us a whirlwind tour of some of the early New Zealand Unitarians who have gone before us in this congregation.


Opening words:- New Member Covenant” By Laura Randall

Chalice Lighting:- is adapted from Chalice Lighting” By Oberlin UU Fellowship, Oberlin, OH, USA

Closing Words:- Each of us ministers to a weary world” By Darcy Roake

The thrill of participatory theology

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The thrill of participatory theology
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Clay Nelson © 7 May 2023

This morning is the fourth in a series of musings about what it means to be a living tradition. (Here are links to talks 1, 2, and 3.) How have we changed? Who decides what it means to be a UU today? And who owns the congregation?

When the eight members from diverse backgrounds were appointed to review Article II Bylaws, the first thing they did was consult UU stakeholders. These included, amongst others:-

  • Congregational leaders, lay and professional
  • Professional Associations
  • Philosophical and Theological Groups (e.g. UU Humanists, UU Christians, etc.)
  • 8th Principle and 1st Principle advocates
  • Past GA attendees
  • Former UUs who have left the faith
  • Unchurched UUs who still identify as UUs but don’t belong to UU
  • Members of the 2010 Commission on Appraisal
  • UUA staff
  • UU seminaries
  • UU Issues groups (e.g., UU Earth Justice Ministry, UUs for Justice in the Middle East

This is participatory theology. Its purpose is to determine and articulate our shared values and theology.

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Will Unitarian Universalism remain a living tradition?

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Will Unitarian Universalism remain a living tradition?
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Clay Nelson © 30 April 2023

[Third musing in the series] 1, 2

I was intrigued by excerpts of Diane Miller’s reflections on the proposed changes to the Unitarian Universalist Association (UUA) Bylaws to be voted on in June at the General Assembly. Dianne was a young pregnant feminist invited to be on the committee charged with revising our purposes. Her son was born during the committee’s work. He was a toddler when what we know as the Seven Principles passed General Assembly in 1985. It was a radical change from such statements in the past. Her son is now a parent with two children, and Diane is retired. She is 74. She is also delighted that the hard work of the committee she served is being revised nearly 40 years later. What struck me most is that, including her generation, which is also mine, three generations of those who became UUs after 1985 have only known the Seven Principles as the definition of who we are.

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