Lifewise – Merge Café

Lifewise Merge Café located in Ponsonby near the Auckland Unitarian Church, sent out a call for financial help in March this year. The Café has taken a huge financial hit due to impact of the four Auckland Covid-19 lockdown periods, and was in danger of closing.
The Walking Dead: Are we all infected?
with Rev. Clay Nelson
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Clay Nelson © 28 March 2021
I have a bone to pick with my daughter. In a recent FaceTime call she was appalled to learn I wasn’t familiar with a TV series called The Walking Dead. I reminded her that I do do dragons and wizards — and werewolves if Michael J Fox is one. I don’t do horror films or at least not since I was 14, when I “watched” Hitchcock’s The Birds with my jacket over my head. A book about vampires is okay, but I don’t want to read about or watch zombies.
Then while looking for a new series to watch I saw that Neon had just made The Walking Dead available — all ten seasons. Just to be more up-to-date with cultural references I decided to watch just one episode and then tell my daughter it was a waste of time. I’ve just about completed season four.… I am thoroughly hooked.
Continue reading The Walking Dead: Are we all infected?Unitarians live in a parallel universe
with Rev. Clay Nelson
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Clay Nelson © 21 March 2021
From my experience, one of the most difficult things to do in life is to cross a threshold. I would like to be able to claim that I do so bravely and boldly. Sadly, human frailty being what it is, that has often not been the case. Sometimes it has required tornado public transport to move me from Kansas to Oz. Sometimes I have crossed by accident while playing hide and seek with myself and my fears in the back of a wardrobe.
Continue reading Unitarians live in a parallel universeThe Carbon Footprint of Faith
with Rev. Clay Nelson
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Clay Nelson © 14 March 2021
I have shared in the past that I was reared by, and infused with the values of, a staunch empiricist. Yet my scientist father was a highly committed and active member of the Episcopal Church most of his adult life. Furthermore, to everyone’s surprise, including mine, he parented an Episcopal priest who evolved into a Unitarian minister. As a teenager I could not untangle the mystery of how belief in science and faith could be embodied in a single skin. It was a conundrum. It was an impossible juxtaposition. It was mind-numbing cognitive dissonance. It defied an adolescent’s black and white view of reality.
Continue reading The Carbon Footprint of FaithThe road to hothouse hell is paved with good intentions
with Rev. Clay Nelson
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Clay Nelson © 7 March 2021
To continue with Elizabeth’s Kolbert’s river metaphor, I am reminded of a gift a friend who knew me too well gave me at the beginning of my ministry. It was a poster of a landscape featuring a river. The caption beneath it read, “Don’t push the river”. This intrinsically Taoist wisdom taunted me from its primacy of place on the wall facing my desk. All my stereotypic male traits wanted to move the river faster; straighten its meandering nature; keep it carefully constrained within its banks. There was way too much to be done to accept the river’s natural pace. The river’s course might be more picturesque, but posters be damned, it wasn’t efficient or fit for purpose from my limited view. Time to push it.
Continue reading The road to hothouse hell is paved with good intentionsWhanau Gathering for All Ages
Easter egg hunt, activities, shared pot-luck picnic lunch 12 noon – 3pm Easter Sunday 4th April.
Join us for our first Whanau Gathering for 2021 on Easter Sunday 4th April, after the Sunday Service.
This is an intergenerational gathering. We welcome children and people of all ages to attend. Please invite your friends and their children to join us.
There will be a craft project, an Easter egg hunt – children will hunt for plastic eggs
and then exchange them for “real” chocolate ones, and we ask everyone to bring picnic food ready to eat for a shared pot-luck lunch..
Don’t believe everything you think
with Rev. Clay Nelson
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Clay Nelson © 28 February 2021
Optical illusions are fun. In part because they are universal as far as I know. The word illusion comes from the Latin word illudere, meaning “to mock”. These illusions trick our brains into perceiving something different from physical reality. Three common ones are illusory motion (images that appear to be moving), double pictures (images that contain two pictures in one), and impossible objects (images that make sense when drawn on paper, but which could never exist in real life!).
Continue reading Don’t believe everything you thinkAutumn Equinox celebration — Dances of Universal Peace
Sunday 21 March 2021, 5.00pm-8.00pm
A delightful way to experience community and intimacy with the Spirit of Life through a rich, intercultural array of pathways.
Continue reading Autumn Equinox celebration — Dances of Universal PeaceFrom Gujarat to West Bengal

with Shirin Caldwell
A story of the Revival of the Traditional Textiles of India after the “Inglorious Empire” of the British Raj.
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Shirin Caldwell © 21st February 2021
This talk is an introduction to one story (there are many) of how the ancient arts of weaving and embroidery are being revived amongst the artisans of Gujarat and West Bengal in India. The story is told through my eyes, which were opened on a Traditional Textiles tour to India in 2019.
I joined Joji’s Jacob’s Traditional Textiles of India Tour in October 2019. It was dazzling!
India: drenched in colour, the vibrancy of the people, the fascinating accommodation including the 19th century Itachuna Rajbari in West Bengal, or the luxurious Taj Mahal hotel in Lucknow the Terracotta Temples, the idol makers workshops in Kolkata, the stunning traditional weaving and embroideries, the breath-taking ancient step wells whose stories are carved into the stone walls and pillars. And…the Chambal River ride alive with crocodiles and gharials. All of these will linger long in my memory.
But today, I want to talk about one of the major reasons for my choosing this tour over the many others, that was the social justice emphasis on supporting the revival of the ancient weaving and embroidery arts by the artisans of India, that were almost lost due the deliberate, brutal repressive policies of the British East India Company and later the British Raj.
Continue reading From Gujarat to West Bengal